Advance care planning

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Advance care planning

When you are told that the ovarian cancer is incurable, you may start to think about what’s important to you before and after you die.  

You may also think about the future when the cancer makes you more unwell. Or perhaps when you or your clinical team are thinking about stopping active treatment. Instead, your team will be controlling your symptoms rather than trying to control the cancer.  

You may be a person who likes to plan ahead. Or perhaps a stay in hospital has made you think about the ‘what ifs’, such as:  

  • What or who is most important to me if I get more ill?
  • What do people need to know about me to care for me?
  • What if the people who are caring for me need help for me to stay at home?
  • How do I decide and say what treatments I might not want in the future? 

My hospital referred me for palliative care and my GP surgery arranged for me to have an appointment with a nurse to discuss advance care planning. My sister came to the appointment with me. I never felt rushed as we discussed my decisions and filled in the ReSPECT form (an emergency care information form) with the nurse. It’s helpful to make all these decisions early rather than last minute. Yes, it can be scary, but I'd rather do it when there's plenty of time to talk about my options.

Helen
What is advance care planning? 

Advance care planning means making decisions about the treatment or care you would or wouldn’t like in future. You can talk to your family and friends about your decisions and write it down for them and for your clinical team and/or palliative care team.  

By writing down your decisions, your preferences will be known and can be followed if you’re ever unable to tell the people around you. Many people feel more in control after writing down their wishes. It gives them peace of mind to continue living their life now. 

Talking about advance care planning

It is important to talk about advance care planning. Take time to consider what matters to you. Is it about making specific decisions? Or is it about talking with your loved ones about what matters most to you? Take as much time as you need to. 
Some of the questions that you might want to think about are:  

  • If your health worsens what are your most important goals?  
  • What are your biggest fears or worries?  
  • How much does your family know about your priorities or wishes?  
  • What does a good quality of life look like to you?
  • What would a good day look like?  
  • Who and what matters to you?  
  • What do people need to know about you to care for you?
  • How do you like to talk about these things? 
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My care, my future

A guide for anyone living with incurable ovarian cancer.

Recording your care and treatment wishes

Once you’ve thought about your future care and treatment you can write down your decisions.  

To support you as much as possible, it’s helpful for your family, friends, doctors and nurses to know:  

  • what’s important to you  
  • what your future wishes are
  • the decisions you make about your treatment and care  
  • any treatments you don’t want.

There are three main ways to write down your preferences for your future treatment and care:

  • advance statement – writing down what’s important for your care
  • advance decision to refuse treatment (ADRT) – a statement written in advance about medical treatments that you don’t want, if you cannot say so yourself at the time
  • lasting power of attorney (LPA) for health and welfare – appointing someone to speak on your behalf about your care and treatments.

These documents have different names depending on where you live in the UK:  

England and WalesAdvance statementAdvance decision to refuse treatment (ADRT), also called a living willLasting power of attorney (LPA) for property and financial affairs and/or health and welfare
ScotlandAdvance statementAdvance directive, also called a living willPower of attorney for property and financial affairs only
Northern IrelandAdvance statementAdvance decision to refuse treatment (ADRT), also called a living willEnduring power of attorney for property and financial affairs only
What we call it in our informationAdvance statementAdvance decision to refuse treatment (ADRT)Lasting power of attorney (LPA)

 

Advance statement

An advance statement is a way for you to write down what’s important to you about your care. This is so that everyone involved in your care knows what care you would prefer.  

An advance statement isn’t legally binding, but it must be taken into account for any best interests decision and it does hold legal weight.  

In your advance statement you could include:  

  • Where you want to live and be cared for at the end of your life.
  • Who’s important to you and who you would want to be involved in making decisions about your care. But be aware that these people won’t have legal rights to make decisions if they are only named in an advance statement.
  • Whether you would want to go to a hospice for care at the end of your life.  
  • How you like spending your time and things that bring you pleasure.
  • Any spiritual, religious or cultural practices that are important to you.
  • Important information about your health.  
  • Important people in your life.  
  • Your lifestyle and habits which are important to you such as your favourite fragrances, songs or music, or things like wanting to have your hair and makeup done every day.
  • Your food preferences and allergies. 
Advance decision to refuse treatment (ADRT)

An advance decision to refuse treatment (ADRT) is a legal document that anyone in the UK can make. ADRTs are legally binding in England and Wales. They also hold legal weight in Scotland and Northern Ireland.  

In Scotland an ADRT is called an advance directive. In Northern Ireland it is called an advance decision to refuse treatment. You may also hear ADRTs called a living will.  

An ADRT must be made when you have capacity (the ability) to make decisions. It can be used to record any tests and treatments you don’t want to have if you become more unwell. This can help you to stay in control of future treatment decisions and keep a quality of life that’s meaningful to you. Your ADRT is used if you can’t say what you want yourself in future.

An ADRT must be signed and witnessed to make sure that your decisions about treatment you don’t want (refuse) are upheld, if you can’t say so at the time.    

If you don’t make an ADRT and lose mental capacity to make decisions, a doctor will have the final say on decisions that need to be made about your treatment or care. 

Lasting power of attorney (LPA)

Lasting power of attorney (LPA) is a legal document that lets you appoint one or more people to make decisions on your behalf.  

In Scotland this is called a power of attorney and in Northern Ireland it is called enduring power of attorney.  

In England and Wales there are two types of LPA. You can choose to make one type or both:    

  • Property and financial affairs (in all areas of the UK) – you can give this person the power to make decisions about money and property, for example managing a bank account or paying bills. This person can speak on your behalf from any time that you authorise them to do so.    
  • Health and welfare (in England and Wales only) – you can give this person the power to make decisions about things like your daily routine and medical care. It can only be used if you’re unable to make your own decisions or express your wishes at the time.    

Having a health and welfare LPA can be reassuring. It means someone that you trust will act on your behalf if you’re unable to say your wishes and decisions yourself. This might include accepting or refusing medical treatment for you.

It’s very important to choose someone who understands your wishes for treatment, especially if you know that there’s specific treatment that you don’t want in the future or have thought about making an ADRT.  

It can also be helpful to make sure you have an advance statement and advance decision in place. This is so that your LPA can evidence your wishes if challenging decisions need to be made.    

In Scotland and Northern Ireland, you can only give someone power of attorney for your property and financial affairs.  

In Northern Ireland, you can nominate an enduring power of attorney under the Mental Capacity Act 2016. This currently only allows your chosen person to make decisions about your property and financial affairs, it doesn’t yet cover health decisions.

Can I have both an ADRT and an LPA?

You can have both an ADRT and an LPA for health and welfare. If you do, the one that you made more recently will take priority when a decision needs to be made about your treatment or care.

Making a decision for someone else

If someone can’t make a decision for themselves because they have lost mental capacity, then the decision needs to be made by someone else. This is called making a best interests decision. The responsibility for making decisions falls to health professionals not family members unless:  

  • you have made an ADRT
  • you have appointed an LPA for health and welfare.

A best interests decision is needed for anything not covered in your ADRT if you don’t have capacity to make the decision yourself. For example, if you have a medical condition, like a stroke, that isn’t covered in your ADRT. In this situation, a best interests decision will need to be made for you, either by the doctor in charge of your care or your LPA for health and welfare if you have appointed one.

If an ADRT is in place for the decision that needs to be made, then a best interests decision wouldn’t be needed. As the ADRT is legally binding, it takes priority over decisions made in your best interest by other people.  

If you have an ADRT but it doesn’t apply to the situation in which a best interests decision needs to be made, then the ADRT can be used as a guide when making the best interests decision.     

Do not attempt cardiopulmonary resuscitation (DNACPR)

Do not attempt cardiopulmonary resuscitation (DNACPR) is a decision not to attempt cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR). CPR is a treatment used to try to restart someone’s heart and/or breathing.  

A DNACPR is a document signed by a doctor and made in advance to guide health professionals whether to attempt to restart the heart. You may also hear it called a DNAR or a ReSPECT form.  

Often people feel as they near the end of their life that they don’t want CPR. Doctors are likely to advise you that resuscitation would be unsuccessful if you have advanced ovarian cancer. With a DNACPR, while CPR wouldn’t be attempted, this doesn’t mean that other treatments wouldn’t be offered to you.

Sometimes a doctor or nurse may talk to you about it if they feel that it’s unlikely that your heart could be restarted due to your condition.  You may also wish to start the conversation with your healthcare team.

Doctors, nurses and paramedics have clinical handover systems which mean they can know decisions about people’s DNACPR if they are called unexpectedly to see them. This is the case if they are in hospital, a care home or at home. 

Talk to your GP or CNS if you would like important decisions you have made about your care or any specific information about you shared in this way.  

You may also choose to share your documents yourself with anyone involved with your care. This includes your clinical team, palliative care team, GP and local ambulance trust. It can give you peace of mind that they’re aware of your wishes.

The ReSPECT process

The ReSPECT process stands for Recommended Summary Plan for Emergency Care and Treatment. ReSPECT records your emergency care information so that health professionals can access it quickly. This means that in different care settings they can make immediate decisions about your care and treatment in a crisis. It covers more decisions about treatment and care than DNACPRs.

The ReSPECT process is used in some areas of England and Scotland. Northern Ireland is currently working towards using it.

Making or updating your will

By making a will, you can make sure that when you die your assets and belongings go to those who you feel should or would benefit most. Your will should set out:  

  • who you want to benefit  
  • who should look after any children under 18  
  • who your executor is. This is who’s going to sort out your estate (everything you own) and carry out your wishes after you die. 

You can write your will yourself, but you should get advice if your situation isn’t straightforward. You also need to get your will formally witnessed and signed to make it legally valid. 

Find out more about making a will.

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Writing or updating your will

Target Ovarian Cancer can support you to make updates or write a will for free. 

The reality is that you do have to do these things, like, organise your affairs, make your will and talk about things that might be horrible to talk about. But once you've done them, you feel a bit better. Doing these things helps you get to the point where there's more acceptance. It’s difficult to talk about death but it’s one of life’s shared experiences.

Sarah

Thinking about your digital legacy

It might be helpful to think about what happens to your online and social media accounts after you have died. This is known as your digital legacy. You can write down what you want to happen to each account to help people follow your wishes.  

You can keep details of what you would like to happen to your online and social media accounts in your will or in a separate digital will.

Choosing what happens to your online and social media accounts

Online accounts and social media sites will have different options for what you can do. They include:

  1. Setting up a legacy contact to manage your account after you die – Apple, Google and Facebook have this option.
  2. Creating a backup and downloading a copy of your data to save photos and messages.
  3. Memorialising a social media account so it can be seen by friends but no one can make changes to it.
  4. Deactivating an account so it can no longer be seen but information may still be stored if someone needs it.
  5. Deleting an account so that your information is permanently removed.

Digital Legacy Association can help you to manage your digital legacy.

Thinking about a funeral

You may have been to funerals for friends or family members that you thought had aspects that you would want to include in a celebration of your life. Or you may know what you definitely don’t want. Talking about these thoughts might help those close to you feel confident that they can help you carry out your wishes. Some families might find this difficult and avoid it. If this is the case, you may need to write things down for them.  

How much you plan is up to you. It might be anything from the type of funeral, to every last detail – music, flowers, or even a message for those who attend.  

You can also write a letter of wishes which is addressed to your executors. This is the person or people responsible for carrying out the instructions in your will. The letter of wishes can include:  

  • giving guidance  
  • listing your assets
  • details of funeral arrangements
  • information explaining your will.  

You can include anything that makes you feel comfortable and confident that your wishes will be carried out.  

Marie Curie has more information and advice about planning a funeral.

How do I find out more?

There are lots of organisations that can provide practical advice and support for thinking about these topics. These resources might be helpful to look at now, or to keep for when you feel ready: 

Last reviewed: May 2025

Next review: May 2028

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